Happy 40th birthday Clare, We had a small celebration of your life on your birthday yesterday (May 13th as if you didn't know). We put some flowers on your grave, chatted and reminisced about your life and all the wonderful times we shared. Ben, your fellow pyromaniac was in charge of birthday candles and created a fire you would have been proud of. The boys blew out the candles on your behalf!! They hold your torch, which (literally) continues to burn brightly. We love you and miss you and continue to remember usually with smiles on our faces John, Jack and Ben xxx